Erotic Blueprints enable connection, adventure and fun!

I’m Jay, and as a Certified Erotic Blueprint CoachTM, I’m here to help you experience more pleasure in the bedroom. But sexual fulfillment begins outside of the bedroom – especially for women. 

The key is communication. Yet many of the women I’ve worked with experience a lack of vocabulary to communicate their intimate desires – together with varying degrees of embarrassment and shame.

Having the proper words and expressions is the first step to dissolve shame and release disappointment and resentment. So, what if there were a simple yet powerful way to understand and communicate your erotic needs? 

That way exists, and it’s called the Erotic BlueprintsTM

Maybe you’ve heard about the five love languages. The Erotic Blueprints are similar, but for your body and erotic life.

Think of it as your body’s erotic language.

Erotic Blueprints provide a framework

Once you learn this framework, you have a language to discuss pleasure and intimacy with your partner, and to deepen your relationship with your body. 

The Erotic Blueprints can be used to understand what turns you on, and how to speak up and communicate your desires. Then, to decipher your partner’s needs and desires and how their way of communication differs from yours. 

But for The Erotic Blueprints to really have a transformative impact in your life… one that breaks through the shame and resentment, shatters the blocks, and helps you experience the fullness of your erotic potential, you need to ascend from understanding to implementing it.

Although the language of the Erotic Blueprints is simple, it’s not always easy to implement. That’s where I come in! I help you go from understanding the theory to applying it in life, your relationship, and in bed. And that’s when the magic (and multiple orgasms) happen.

Through my expertise and support, we explore your Erotic Blueprint and that of your partner so that you can embody these powerful teachings. When you do, you can expect to:

  • Learning what TRULY lights your body up under the layers of shame and conditioning – it might surprise you!

  • Getting confident in communicating your desires to your partner so you can experience more pleasure, connection, and satisfaction in bed.

  • Understanding the needs of your partner so you can turn awkwardness into fun intimacy and awesome sex.

  • Feeling more connected than ever to your partner, so you can enjoy a fulfilling relationship of mutual growth and support. 

Testimonials

I loved this process ... I now feel so calm, so peaceful, so grounded. It's interesting that I can think about those situations that would make me angry and just feel so much peace right now.

Christine B.

Working with Jay and the erotic blueprint model helped me understand more clearly how I prefer to be interacted with and connect intimately not only in a romantic sense, but also in platonic relationships.

Kim K.

I had worked with Jay intermittently for a few years. But then there was an event in my family that caused me lots of anger. I sought out Jay for help. Within no time at all, I was able to get my anger under control and relax and refocus on self-care.

Betty B.

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