I help mature women
in long-term relationships
rekindle the passion
and connection with
their partners.
Upcoming free workshop:
Discover Your 7th Sense | Your Path to Profound Connection
March 21st at 12pm ET
Do you ...
Wake up, feel absence where partner used to hold you. Those morning snuggles gone.
Scroll through old photos, notice your body changes, and wonder if your partner still finds you attractive.
Share wine after work yet it no longer leads to romance but awkward conversations instead.
Dread the moment after intimacy because you feel unsatisfied. You're uncertain how to suggest trying new things.
Sense distance from partner and hesitate to text about a work incident unsure how to connect.
Feel jealous of your colleague's texting with her partner. You miss flirtatious moments.
Think you and your partner are merely roommates.
If you recognize any of the above, know that you’re not alone.
There’s nothing wrong with you, and you are NOT asking for too much.
The good news?
The path to more connection, intimacy, and passionate sex might be shorter and simpler than you believe.
Use these as a starting point to explore your needs and desires.
My purpose is to re-awaken and empower the unique erotic nature within each individual, developing it as their vital 7th sense.
This allows you to confidently express your needs and desires, ensure these are lovingly met, and create relationships where each person feels valued and cherished.
Imagine a life where you ...
Wake up in your partner's warm embrace; feel gratitude and deep love.
Admire with grace and gratitude your body changes in the mirror.
Feel secure in partner's unwavering attraction.
Enjoy wine and snacks after work where laughter leads to passionate intimacy.
Share your desires freely, creating new and intimate adventures together.
After a work conflict, text your partner for support; find comfort in his unwavering dedication.
Enjoy your partner's playful messages; appreciate staying connected and growing love over time.
your guide to the best sex & connection of your life!
Hello, I'm Jay.
I envision a world where sensuality is recognized as our 7th sense, enabling a new and profound way of feeling and existing.
I help people discover and understand their true selves, exploring their relational personality and style, as well as their desired way of being loved. I empower them to trust themselves and express their needs in relationships, fostering a sense of connection, desirability, and love.
35+ years as a hands-on bodyworker
25+ years as an energy healer
20+ years as a coach and trainer
If I had known this back in 2008 ...
It wasn’t just the year of the financial crisis. It was also the year of a personal crisis: The year I filed for divorce.
Ways to Work With Me
Discover Your 7th Sense
A free 1-hour live workshop
Mastermind
Weekly live group sessions
Journey to Joy
Live 3-day event
Radiant & Magnetic
8-week online workshop
S.E.N.S.E.
6-month 1:1 program
Testimonials
I loved this process ... I now feel so calm, so peaceful, so grounded. It's interesting that I can think about those situations that would make me angry and just feel so much peace right now.
Christine B.
Working with Jay and the erotic blueprint model helped me understand more clearly how I prefer to be interacted with and connect intimately not only in a romantic sense, but also in platonic relationships.
Kim K.
I had worked with Jay intermittently for a few years. But then there was an event in my family that caused me lots of anger. I sought out Jay for help. Within no time at all, I was able to get my anger under control and relax and refocus on self-care.
Betty B.
